Your presence is the best gift to us; hence, you do not have to give us anything.
However, if you feel obliged to give something, we ask friends and family to give us money or
"lai see bao" (meaning "good fortune envelope" in Cantonese). We live together and have everything
we need to start our married life. Our apartment is small and does not have space for
gifts.
Keeping in mind of safety and convenience, we prefer that friends and family give lai see bao
in the form of check/PayPal/Venmo instead of cash. We don't want to risk losing anything on the wedding
day.